Divorce News, Trends & Advice

If you're looking at divorce, you probably have a lot of questions. From how to file paperwork to what the numbers say about couples splitting, this page gathers the most useful info in one place.

What’s happening now?

Recent data shows a slight rise in divorce filings across South Africa and neighboring countries. Experts link the increase to economic pressures and changing attitudes toward marriage. Courts report that many couples are opting for faster, less‑court‑heavy processes, like mediation or collaborative law. This shift means you can often settle property and custody matters without a long courtroom battle.

Steps to take if you’re considering separation

First, protect your finances. Open a separate bank account, list all assets, and keep receipts of joint expenses. Next, talk to a family‑law solicitor early – a short consultation can clarify what you’re entitled to and what costs to expect. Many lawyers now offer fixed‑fee packages for basic divorce filings, which helps avoid surprise bills.

Second, think about children. Courts prioritize their well‑being, so having a parenting plan ready can speed up the process. A simple plan outlines where the kids will live, school arrangements, and holiday schedules. Even if you and your ex‑partner disagree, a clear draft shows you’re willing to cooperate.

Third, consider mediation. A neutral mediator helps both sides reach agreement on money, property, and parenting issues. Studies from the University of Pretoria found that couples who mediate settle 30% faster and spend less on legal fees.

If you decide to go to court, be prepared for a timeline. Filing the divorce petition starts the clock, then there’s a mandatory waiting period of at least three months before a final decree. During this time, both parties exchange financial disclosures and may attend a court‑ordered counseling session.

While the legal side can feel overwhelming, remember that emotional support matters too. Many NGOs and community groups run free counseling for people going through a breakup. Reaching out to friends, family, or a support group can make the transition smoother.

Lastly, stay informed. Our tag page updates daily with stories about high‑profile divorces, new legislation, and tips from professionals. Bookmark this page and check back often to keep up with any changes that might affect your case.

Divorce is a tough journey, but with the right information and a clear plan, you can move forward confidently. Use the resources here, talk to a qualified lawyer, and lean on your support network. You deserve a fresh start, and we’re here to help you navigate the process.

When splitting assets, list everything — property, vehicles, investments, and even social‑media accounts that might have ad revenue. Valuing each item fairly can prevent disputes later. If you own a home together, explore options like selling, buying out the other partner, or keeping it as a rental.

After the divorce is final, focus on rebuilding. Update your will, change passwords, and notify banks of your new marital status. Many people find that setting short‑term goals—like a new hobby or a fitness routine—helps restore confidence and creates a positive outlook for the future.